Songs dealing with non-monogamous relationships

a discography by
Howard A. Landman

[in association with amazon.com]
This list is broken into several categories, because there were too many different kinds of poly songs. I'm not personally familiar with all the songs below, so if one doesn't fit its category, please let me know. Ideally, send me lyrics so I can put them online and decide myself.

Author, title, and albums are given if known. Links for further information are given where available. Artist links give more information about the artist. Song title links take you to the lyrics. Album links bring up the amazon.com page for the album; you can read reviews, see the full track list, and buy it if you want.


Long-term Poly Relationship Songs

Criteria for inclusion in this list: Note that sexual involvement is not a requirement. Thus, we have Sting's "Tea In The Sahara", which has multiple sisters involved with a young man in some unspecified way ("they danced for his pleasure"). Joan Armatrading's "The Weakness In Me" describes a situation where the main partner of the singer is not aware of the situation, but she clearly doesn't like having to "make someone else some kind of an unknowing fool".


Short-term Poly Relationship Songs

Criteria for inclusion in this list:

Poly Sex Songs

Criteria for inclusion in this list: Basically, this category is for songs which emphasize poly sexual acts rather than poly relationships.

Remainder Bin: Cheating & Sleeping Around

Criteria for inclusion in this list: Most of these songs aren't really poly in the sense that people on the poly email list or the alt.polyamory newsgroup mean it, but some of them do express some of the reasons why people get involved in poly.

And finally: What, me poly?

These songs are ones that someone thought were poly, but after reading the lyrics I haven't got a clue as to why they thought that.
I'm also looking for reviews or lyrics to the following so I can tell whether to add them:
©1997-2005 Howard A. Landman
howard@polyamory.org
Last updated 2005 January 15