Excerpts from the Quran
The following passages from the Quran seem relevant to polyamory.
- 2(The Cow):187
- It is made lawful to you to go into your wives on the
night of the fast; they are an apparel for you and you are an
apparel for them; Allah knew that you acted unfaithfully to
yourselves, so He has turned to you (mercifully) and removed from
you (this burden); so now be in contact with them and seek
what Allah has ordained for you ...
- 4(Women):3
- And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards
orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and
three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice
(between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands
possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the
right course.
- 33(The Allies):6
- The Prophet has a greater claim on the faithful than they
have on themselves, and his wives are (as) their mothers ...
- 33(The Allies):28-33
- 28. O Prophet! say to your wives: If you desire this world's
life and its adornment, then come, I will give you a
provision and allow you to depart a goodly departing
29. And if you desire Allah and His Apostle and the latter
abode, then surely Allah has prepared for the doers of good
among you a mighty reward.
30. O wives of the prophet! whoever of you commits an open
indecency, the punishment shall be increased to her doubly;
and this IS easy to Allah.
31. And whoever of you is obedient to Allah and His Apostle
and does good, We will give to her her reward doubly, and We
have prepared for her an honorable sustenance.
32. O wives of the Prophet! you are not like any other of
the women; If you will be on your guard, then be not soft in
(your) speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease yearn;
and speak a good word.
33. And stay in your houses and do not display your finery
like the displaying of the ignorance of yore; and keep up
prayer, and pay the poor-rate, and obey Allah and His
Apostle. Allah only desires to keep away the uncleanness
from you, O people of the House! and to purify you a
(thorough) purifying.
- 33(The Allies):49-52
- 49. O you who believe! when you marry the believing women,
then divorce them before you touch them, you have in their
case no term which you should reckon; so make some provision
for them and send them forth a goodly sending forth.
50. O Prophet! surely We have made lawful to you your wives
whom you have given their dowries, and those whom your right
hand possesses out of those whom Allah has given to you as
prisoners of war, and the daughters of your paternal uncles
and the daughters of your paternal aunts, and the daughters
of your maternal uncles and the daughters of your maternal
aunts who fled with you; and a believing woman if she gave
herself to the Prophet, if the Prophet desired to marry
her-- specially for you, not for the (rest of) believers; We
know what We have ordained for them concerning their wives
and those whom their right hands possess in order that no
blame may attach to you; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
51. You may put off whom you please of them, and you may
take to you whom you please, and whom you desire of those
whom you had separated provisionally; no blame attaches to
you; this is most proper, so that their eyes may be cool and
they may not grieve, and that they should be pleased, all of
them with what you give them, and Allah knows what is in
your hearts; and Allah is Knowing, Forbearing.
52. It is not allowed to you to take women afterwards, nor
that you should change them for other wives, though their
beauty be pleasing to you, except what your right hand
possesses and Allah is Watchful over all things.
©1997, 1999
Howard A. Landman /
howard@polyamory.org
Last updated 1999 April 28